Something I should have addressed sooner

I want to differentiate between Rape Fantasy and Actual Rape, and hammer home the point that if we are to safely enjoy the former we MUST completely oppose the latter.

Here are three good articles about Rape Fantasy which provide personal insight from the authors as well as a more psychological approach:

http://www.thefrisky.com/2009-09-23/girl-talk-when-rape-fantasy-becomes-reality/

http://thoughtcatalog.com/janet-bloomfield/2015/02/5-reasons-women-love-rape-fantasies/

http://www.yourtango.com/201176147/why-rape-fantasies-are-ok

But more importantly, here are two good resources for anti-domestic abuse:

http://www.ncadv.org/

http://greatist.com/happiness/stop-domestic-violence-organizations

Domestic abuse is never acceptable, don't make excuses and don't allow it.